Though I am yet to meet a person who has never been confronted with a problem in life, I have come across many who spend a great deal of time trying to unrealistically dodge problems in life.
Problems are part of our everyday existence; they shape us and prepare us for the future. They strengthen the path upon which we journey through in life and they give us a reason to re-evaluate and calculate our actions and omissions.
No matter how hard you try, you cannot totally dodge the problems that will hit your life. You may succeed in dodging and postponing some, but eventually you will one day encounter the necessary ones.
As human beings, the problems we are able to easily deal with or provide solutions to are those we foresee or anticipate. Beyond that, most of us get confused and miserable, forgetting that beneath these problems lay opportunities. Sometimes, the solutions to these problems are even placed close to them.
In whatever problem or uncomfortable situation we find ourselves, we must try to figure out how to get around it, over it or under it instead of begrudging the situation or ourselves.
The world will never end for you simply because things fail to go the way you expected it. Instead, you get a new opportunity in a new world to make things the way you want.
Whenever you are hit by problems, your best response is to get it solved and move on. When life is negative, you have to be positive and forward thinking to get through.
The greatest opportunities of life are hidden and they are mostly hidden in the worst situations we find ourselves.
Before giving up on a situation or someone, look close at that thing or person and search for the hidden opportunities you will missing out on if you cowardly run away without solving things. Even if you run away, I bet you will be hit by the same situation again.
Problems are negative situations and therefore the best response you must give to them all the time is ‘being positive’.
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